Feminismul si consecintele sale
Feminismul si consecintele sale | Autor: Maria_1
Gasesc intr-un articol afirmatiile:
"Mesajul feminist este categoric egoist, egotist si individualist".
Mai departe:
"Marea eroare in care cade ideologia feminista este negarea diferentei dintre sexe, femeia si barbatul devenind intersanjabili ca si rolurile lor. Diferenta dintre sexe este o realitate naturala si a o nega este mai mult decat o absurditate. Adevarul este ca ideile feministe au reusit doar sa confuzeze pe femei si sa le puna in conflict cu propria lor natura si cu sexul opus. "
"Femeile din generatiile anterioare nu au fost obsedate de identitatea lor, nu au fost incurajate sa se culce la intamplare, sa divorteze, sa isi puna copiii in day care ore prelungite, sa ceara ajutor financiar de la guvern."
"Pe buna dreptate autoarele considera criza institutiei casniciei o forta distructiva a societatii contemporane, citand-o pe Caitlin Flanagan care in articolul Why Marriage Matters (Time, July 13, 2009) conclude: „There is no other single force causing as much measurable hardship and human misery in this country as the collapse of marriage” (Nu este nici o alta forta care sa cauzeze atat de multa suferinta si mizerie umana in aceasta tara ca prabusirea casatoriei”
Eu personal, tind sa fiu de acord cu cele de mai sus si consider ca feminismul a ajuns (de multe ori) la extrem. Cu toate ca drepturile fundamentale (pt care feminismul a luat fiinta) au fost obtinute......feminismul continua sa se manifeste prin forme din ce in ce mai agresive si daunatoare.
Voi ce stiti si ce parere aveti despre feminism?
Raspunsuri
portocalia spune:
nu ne dai si sursa? de unde provine acest "articol"?
Maria_1 spune:
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| citat din mesajul lui portocalia nu ne dai si sursa? de unde provine acest "articol"? |
Ba sigur ca o dau. Pentru cine are rapbdare, ca e lung si nu puteam sa il postez integral aici:
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AB_AC spune:
Daaaa absolut feminismul e un rau care trebuie eradicat....
Eu propun regulile acestea 
http://www.laszlo.com/Hobbies/Internet/Stuff/Rules_For_A_Good_Housewife/
1955 Rules For A Good Housewife
1.Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
2.Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
3.Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
4. During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
5. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
6. Be happy to see him.
7. Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
8 .Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
9. Don't greet him with complaints and problems.
10. Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
11.Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
12.Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
13.Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity.
14.Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
15.A good wife always knows her place.
Cine are nevoie de o traducere sa-si roage sotul... stim ca femeile nu trebuiesc educate!
Victoria_mami spune:
AB_AC
SI cand te gandesti cate femei au trait dupa regulile astea... 
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AkaManah spune:
Mai ce tarziu m-am nascut!!! Ca sa vezi...ce viata avea bunicul...
Lasati-va de fumat, renuntati la alcool, treceti la o dieta sanatoasa, nu mancati seara tarziu si in doua saptamani o sa pierdeti 14 zile!
gmmm spune:
AB AC, "regulile" acestea ar putea fi o inscenare.
Vezi articolul din snopes.com si din Wikipedia ("Good Wife's Guide").
Iar daca incerci sa faci o cautare cu "Housekeeping Monthly" (unde se presupune ca ar fi fost publicat articolul, in 1955), tot ce gasesti sint referinte la "Good Wife's Guide".
AB_AC spune:
Asa-i mey is for fun:) dar departe de realitate nu-s:)
Iar ad-urile au ajuns de ras, din fericire
Aka chiar regreti?:))
Maria_1 spune:
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| citat din mesajul lui AB_AC Daaaa absolut feminismul e un rau care trebuie eradicat.... Eu propun regulile acestea http://www.laszlo.com/Hobbies/Internet/Stuff/Rules_For_A_Good_Housewife/ 1955 Rules For A Good Housewife 1.Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed. 2.Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. 3.Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables. 4. During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction. 5. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet. 6. Be happy to see him. 7. Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him. 8 .Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.Vestul este mai emancipat ca rasaritul Noi suntem mai apropiati de cultura ortodoxa. In occident femeile participau pe front ca infirmiere, pe cand in est nici nu se punea problema. 9. Don't greet him with complaints and problems. 10. Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work. 11.Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. 12.Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. 13.Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. 14.Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. 15.A good wife always knows her place. Cine are nevoie de o traducere sa-si roage sotul... stim ca femeile nu trebuiesc educate! |
Hahaha! Mi-a placut asta
Formularea mi se pare de mare exceptie
. Dar ma tenteaza sa reiau pe puncte: 1. Cina (mancarea) pregatita. Cate femei au renuntat partial sau total la asta? Sigur, astazi mai comandam o pizza sau mai iesim la restaurant. Dar de cate ori putem sa ne astetam barbatul (si copiii) cu o pizza de comanda?
2. La punctul asta mi se pare ca lucrurile s-au agravat. Multe femei vin istovite de la serviciu, intra la bucatareala si nu mai au timp de nici un 'refresh' pana intra barbatul pe usa. Altele, continua sa procedeze ca in descriere.
3. Cred ca multe femei incearca inca sa faca asta. Putine isi permit sa fie 'acre' si 'plictisite', doar pt ca sunt 'egale' si sunt la fel de stresate si plictisite precum barbatii lor.
4. Aici nu prea cunosc pe nimeni care sa aiba semineu in apartament si sa-si permita luxul :D
5. Hahaha!! Aici..mda.....cred ca nimeni nu-si intampina barbatul cu un cimpoi sau cu surle si trambite.
6. Nu stiu daca happy, dar nu stiu cine e ok sa fie nazuros si cu 'capsa pusa'
7. Partea cu zambetul mi se pare ok. Dar asta cu 'please him' suna putin ciudat. Dar cate femei nu fac oare asta?
8. Asta pica din start. Nici o femeie nu mai gandeste asa. Si nici in '55 nu era asa. La mine in familie. Stiu sigur ca era asa inainte de razboi. Strabunica nu comentabprea mult, copiii nu vorbeau la masa, discutiile le incepea barbatul. Dar nu vorbea de fotbal si de colegii de serviciu. Vorbea lucruri importante despre casa, copii, cumparaturi, nevoi ale familiei.
9.Asta mi se pare o chestie de bun simt, valabila in orice situatie. Nu iei omul cu sfarsit lumii cand abia intra pe usa. Nu faci omului scandal sau reprosuri inainte sa se descalte si sa intre in papuci.
10. Asta e o porcarie. Dar nu toate femile procedau/gandeau asa. Trist este.....ca multe femei procedeaza asa astazi. De teama sau alte cauze. Feminismul nu a gasit solutii reale pt asta. Divotul nu e o solutie pt f multe femei din ziua de azi.
11 si 12. Parca ar fi vorba de un bolnav sau handicapat....:))) In orice caz, sa faci un ceai cald seara sau o limonada....nu mi se pare ca te injoseste. Eu fac asa si imi face placere. In plus sa stai seara pe fotoliu si sa bei ceai cu miere e chiar reconfortant. Multe femei ar vrea sa mai aiba luxul asta, dar fiind devastate dupa o zi plina, putine mai apuca sa (se) rasfete cu asa ceva.
13. Prima parte e prosteasca si in familia mea si printre cunoscutii mei mai in varsta, nu se intampla asta. Pentru ultima parte, a judecat 'integritatea' sotului/barbatului inseamna sa ai probleme si eventual scandal. Urmeaza certuri si despartire/divort. Integritatea sotilor nu se discuta in fiecare dimineata la cafea.
14. Asta a fost realitate pt multi si este in continuare. Formularea mi se pare idioata, dar nu cred ca vreo femeie face pe nebuna in casa barbatului. Asta tine de educatie si 'integritate'. Formularea e discriminatorie, dar e un adevar la mijloc.
15. In sfarsit!! Cu asta sunt perfect deacord. Este valabIil oriunde. Sa stii care ti-e locul inseamna sa ai discernamant si bun simt. Sa stii cand sa taci e o virtute. Sa stii cand sa insisti si pana unde inseamna sa ai masura. Sa stii cate intrebari sa pui si pana unde sa te amesteci, inseamna maturitate. Sa stii sa te opresti cand celalalt e obosit si nervos e vital. Sa stii ca nu totul ti se cuvine e buna crestere. Lista poate continua.
Punctul 15 in contextul de mai sus suna urat. E ca si cum vorbesti de un caine care trebuie sa stea in cotet. Dar de fapt, asta e unul din secretele unei casnicii/relatii armonioase, civilizate si normale. Femeii ii revine si astazi rolul asta. De multe ori femeia e mai inteleapta si stie sa isi tina familia unita. A stii care ti-e locul, inseamna si sa respecti intimitatea celuilalt si sa renunti la poftele si pretentiile tale in favoarea celor la care tii. In familiile reusite (fara divort, oale in cap, scandaluri) fiecare stie care ii e locul. Inclusiv (in special) femeia.
Ce parere ai de ce am insirat mai sus?
gmmm spune:
AB AC, inteleg, ai vrut sa glumesti.
Insa acum sincer si cu mina pe inima, aveai intentia sa spui ca probabil e un fals?