Sa ne amintim de cei "plecati" vesnic
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cami21 spune:
Azi sunt 5 luni de cand copilul meu a plecat departe, dar il astept, poate mai vine.Dupa care imi dau seama ca totul este in zadar. Si nu mai pot, doare tare.De ce Doamne, de ce?
Laina spune:
cami...nu exista "de ce". unii ti-ar spune ca l-a iubit dumnezeu si l-a facut ingeras. poate ca asa e. oricum....nu a plecat de tot. e cu tine cat traiesti si tu. e verificata chestia 
si suntem langa tine.
Val_ spune:
Laina LA MULTI ANI. Sa fii sanatoasa, sa te bucuri de cei dragi si sa iti gasesti linistea.
Cami imi pare tare rau de pierderea ta. Ma doare sufletul cand aud despre asa ceva. Mi se strange inima. Dumnezeu sa iti dea putere sa accepti ca de uitat nu vei uita niciodata.
Valentina cu bebe Mariuca (25.04.2007)
"Am invatat ca un om are dreptul sa-l priveasca pe altul de sus doar cind trebuie sa-l ajute sa se ridice" - Johnny Welch - ''Marioneta''
Mariuca in prima luna
www.sonia.as.ro" target="_blank">Pentru inima Soniei
Sa il ajutam pe Marian
simona3176 spune:
camisint alaturi de tine si stiu prin ce treci.Copilasul meu a devenit ingeras in 20 iunie 2007.Imi este foarte greu fara el si nu pot concepe asa ceva.Nu pot sa inteleg dece nu mai este.Sper ca DUMNEZEU sa ne dea putere la amindoua sa trecem peste asta .DUMNEZEU ii iubeste mai mult si a avut un plan pt ei.Ai grija de tine si fii tare.
Criss75 spune:
Doamne, nu poti sa nu te ingrozesti cand citesti despre atatea mame care si-au pierdut copilasii.
E greu sa nu iti pierzi mintile in asemenea situatii.
Cami, Simona, multa putere sa va dea Dumnezeu.
Criss si Alex
IndyGo spune:
Iubitul mamei, mama te iubeste nespus. Ma rog doar atat.....sa iti fie bine iubitule, sa razi cum o faceai tot timpul, sa fii pus pe shotii, sa emani iubire nemarginita. Ai fost, esti si vei fi pentru totdeauna iubirea si durerea mea fara margine.......somn usor pui mic.....vine si mama la tine, dar putin mai tarziu.....fiecare zi care trece e o zi mai aproape de tine.
Criss75 spune:
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Originally posted by IndyGo
Iubitul mamei, mama te iubeste nespus. Ma rog doar atat.....sa iti fie bine iubitule, sa razi cum o faceai tot timpul, sa fii pus pe shotii, sa emani iubire nemarginita. Ai fost, esti si vei fi pentru totdeauna iubirea si durerea mea fara margine.......somn usor pui mic.....vine si mama la tine, dar putin mai tarziu.....fiecare zi care trece e o zi mai aproape de tine.
Criss si Alex
IndyGo spune:
Dorintele unui parinte care si-a pierdut copilashul:
I wish my child hadn’t died. I wish I had him / her back.
*I wish you wouldn’t be afraid to speak my child’s name. My child lived and was very important to me. I need to hear that he was important to you also.
*If I cry and get emotional when you talk about my child, I wish you knew that it isn’t because you have hurt me. My child’s death is the cause of my tears. You have talked about my child, and you have allowed me to share my grief. I thank you for both.
*I wish you wouldn’t "kill" my child again by removing his pictures, artwork, or other remembrances from your home.
*Being a bereaved parent is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn’t shy away from me. I need you more than ever.
*I need diversions, so I do want to hear about you; but, I also want you to hear about me. I might be sad and I might cry, but I wish you would let me talk about my child, my favorite topic of the day.
*I know that you think of and pray for me often. I also know that my child’s death pains you, too. I wish you would let me know things through a phone call, a card or note, or a real big hug.
*I wish you wouldn’t expect my grief to be over in six months. These first months are traumatic for me, but I wish you could understand that my grief will never be over. I will suffer the death of my child until the day I die.
*I am working very hard in my recovery, but I wish you could understand that I will never fully recover. I will always miss my child, and I will always grieve that he is dead.
*I wish you wouldn’t expect me "not to think about it" or to "be happy." Neither will happen for a very long time, so don’t frustrate yourself.
*I don’t want to have a "pity party," but I do wish you would let me grieve. I must hurt before I can heal.
*I wish you understood how my life has shattered. I know it is miserable for you to be around me when I’m feelings miserable. Please be as patient with me as I am with you.
*When I say "I’m doing okay." I wish you could understand that I don’t feel okay and that I struggle daily.
*I wish you knew that all of the grief reactions I’m having are very normal. Depression, anger, hopelessness and overwhelming sadness are all to be expected. So, please excuse me when I’m quiet and withdrawn or irritable and cranky.
*Your advice to "Take one day at a time" is excellent. I wish you could understand that I’m doing good to handle an hour at a time.
*Please excuse me if I seem rude, certainly not my intent. Sometimes the world around me goes too fast and I need to get off. When I walk away, I wish you would let me find a quiet place to spend time alone.
*I wish you understood that grief changes people. When my child died, a big part of me died with him. I am not the same person I was before my child died, and I will never be that person again.
*I wish very much that you could understand—understand my loss and my grief, my silence and my tears, my void and my pain. But, I pray daily that you will never understand.
Laina spune:
IndyGo, sa fii sigura ca asa este. ca ii e tare bine acolo unde e. iti spun sigur ca ai simti daca ceva nu e in regula.
P.S. mi-au dat lacrimile citind mesajul tau, da'sa nu mai spui la nimeni. eu cica sunt aia tare, sigura ca ei sunt bine si ca sunt langa noi. da'mi revin eu repede 
Criss75 spune:
quote:
Originally posted by Laina
IndyGo, sa fii sigura ca asa este. ca ii e tare bine acolo unde e. iti spun sigur ca ai simti daca ceva nu e in regula.
P.S. mi-au dat lacrimile citind mesajul tau, da'sa nu mai spui la nimeni. eu cica sunt aia tare, sigura ca ei sunt bine si ca sunt langa noi. da'mi revin eu repede
Oricat de tare sa fii, nu se poate sa nu-ti dea lacrimile cand vezi cata durere si cata suferinta e in jurul tau.
Criss si Alex