emigrarea sufletului
Raspunsuri - Pagina 11
Crystinne spune:
Off... Lia, daca ai stii cat se asemana cu momentele din viata mea ... munca grea, dezamagirile, internetul... ma bucur ca-ti scrii "povestea vietii". Intr-o zi ai sa privesti in urma...
Poate am sa o fac si eu ... hihihi... dar nu am sa o public.E de ajuns o poveste si in plus tu chiar ai talent.
Te imbratisez cu drag
GabiG spune:
Super-Lia, ti-am vazut poza! Esti exact asa cum mi-am imaginat, frumoasa si puternica! Ce bine ai stiut sa te descrii...
Multumim de poveste...
si Francesca 1an2 luni
Pe lumea asta exista un singur bebelas (copil) perfect! Si fiecare mama il are!
http://f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/adigabi
kiky spune:
ce cantareste mai mult in balanta?..dorul de tara sau motivatia pentru care ati plecat?...
Amalia spune:
Draga Super-Lia, este minunat felul in care stii sa-ti relatezi viata. Te admir pentru talentul pe care il ai si am citit cu sufletul la gura fiecare episod scris aici. Povestirile tale sunt hrana vie pentru sufletul meu.
Astept cu nerabdare sa te mai citesc.
Sanatate maxima!
adi2003 spune:
Buna tuturor! Sunt noua pe acest forum, dar acest subiect m-a facut sa ma inregistrez. E singurul pe care l-am urmarit pana acum. Frumoase povestiri! Am citit totul de la A-Z in acest subiect si am ramas placut impresionata.
Felicitari celor care au scris, in special Liei, care a scris mai mult decat ma asteptam, dar ma bucur pentru asta si astept continuarea.
Toate cele bune tuturor!
adibe spune:
Super...scriitoare, super ..talent,super... vointa,super ..echilibrata, super.. mamica, baietel ..super cuminte...iar acum ca ti-am vazut fotografia...
Mai fata, dar tu chiar esti reala!!!!!
Acum serios vorbind , ai un talent extraordinar si esti o persoana extraordinara. Iti multumesc ca existi si ca iti publici povestea pe Forum. In afara de "subiect de lectura" povestea ta , cel putin pt mine , e ca o sedinta la psiholog.Daca ai sti cit de mult ma ajuta dupa ce citesc fiecare episod...Gasesc mai multa incredere in mine , gindesc mai pozitiv, imidau seama ca de fapt doar in noi sta puterea de a merge inainte, trebuie doar sa vrei asta cu adevarat.
Nu stiu cit mult poti sa intelegi din ceea ce am scris, ceea ce am vrut sa spun , dar la ora asta nu pot sa explic mai..."explicit"
IN ASTEPTAREA EPISODULUI URMATOR
ADI
lilach spune:
Draga Super-Lia,
esti intradevar super si astept din tot sufletul continuarea.
In urma cu o saptamina ne-am intors din concediu petrecut in Romania.
Nu stiu daca are sens sa povestesc cum a fost.
Astazi in timp ce Laura doarme am reusit si eu sa citesc in liniste tot ce ai scris.
Prin tot ceea ce ai scris pina acum ne dai exemplu ca se poate chiar si cind e greu sa treci peste toate...
Poate cine stie...vor mai fi si altele care vor incepe sa-si depene firul vietii.
"Un sfirsit e un inceput..."
ella& laura,andrei,andra
clau07 spune:
De cand am descoperit acest subiect caut in fiecare zi sa vad ce mai este nou si am impresia ca urmaresc un serial. Este atat de frumos si astept cu nerabdare urmatoarea secventa din viata ta , Lia. Dar sunt sigura ca va fi un final fericit, cum rar se intampla in viata.
Ai un talent deosebit in a povesti si ma bucur ca existi.
Claudia
ange spune:
mei,super-lia
cand ne aratzi si baietzelul??
ne hranesti cu linguritza...
ange,mamica de 2 ori
super-lia spune:
Multumesc la toti si l-a toate pentru vorbele bune. Adevarul este ca la sfarsitul zilei desi sunt epuizata cand vad ca ceea ce scriu este citit imi da puterea de a ma aseza din nou in fata calculatorului si de a va povesti mai departe.
Chiar daca la biserica mergeam doar cand simteam nevoia nu stateam prea mult deoarece nu-mi placea aglomeratia si faptul ca trebuia sa stau in picioare pentru cateva ore. Asa ca intram in zilele din cursul saptamanii cand se intampla sa trec pe langa o casa a Domnului. Ma asezam pe unul din scaune si privind in jur meditam la trecutul si viitorul meu.
Unde gresisem de ajunsesem aici? Ma apropiam cu repeziciune de 30 de ani si nimic din ceea ce-mi doream nu aveam. Care era scopul meu in viata? Ce vroiam?
In aceste momente am realizat ca drumul meu sa schimbat si nu mi-am mai urmat dorintele personale punand starea materiala mai presus de ceea ce doream. Din acest motiv am ramas impreuna cu fostul meu sot. Faptul ca incepusem o afacere impreuna mi-a dat certitudinea ca o vom duce bine din punct de vedere financiar , ca vom avea o casa frumoasa, o masina si alte nimicuri pe care le vrei in fiecare zi. Zi de zi , usor - usor, celalate dorinte le tot impingeam in fundul sacului si nu le-am mai lasat sa iasa la lumina pentru o lunga perioada de timp pana cand in cele din urma sacul sa rupt si nu am mai putut sa-l peticesc.
Vroiam sa fiu iubita , vroiam sa fiu sotie, vroiam sa fiu mama. Doar aceste trei lucruri ma putea face fericita. Asa am decis sa imi ascult inima si sa las naibii rationamentul care ma tot indemna sa pun pe primul plan banii si abia apoi dragostea.
Am inceput o lupta cu mine. Nu aveam cu cine sa discut deoarece nimeni nu-mi cunoastea situatia mai bine decat mine.
Primisem un telefon de la australian care imi spunea ca isi va amana calatoria in Romania pana la o data necunoscuta dearece murise fosta lui soacra (asta-i buna!) si trebuia sa stea acolo ca sa-si sprijine moral fosta sotie. Mai ce noroc pe capul lui. Cati au norocul sa asiste la moartea soacrei. L-am aprobat si am pretins ca nu ma deranjeaza dar deja l-am sters dupa lista. Se pare ca ori avea prea multe probleme ,ori era doar un visator sau cine stie ce pramatie. Nu i-am spus sa nu ma mai sune pur si simplu l-am lasat sa vad ce va face pe viitor.
Bineinteles ca l-am luat si pe Grig la purificat. Era adevarat ca sapte ani de zile imi purtase sambetele si ca nu renuntase nicioadata si sunt sigura ca nu ar refuzat sa se tavaleasca cu mine chiar si casatorita fiind. Asta insemna ca daca as fi fost cu el nu ar fi contat asa de mult si oricand ar fi gasit o alta mai proaspata decat partenera lui si fara prea multe remuscari s-ar inplica intr-o aventura. De fapt asa cum mi-a spus asta a fost unul din motivele pentru care sotia lui a divortat. Chiar daca arata asa bine si era manierat , foarte placut in societate si mi-ar fi placut sa fiu cu el m-am hotarat sa nu continui relatia cu el. Stiam ce fel ma va privi, stiam ca va fi dezamagit dar mai bine sa tai craca de la inceput decat sa o las sa creasca.
Mai ramanea Necunoscutul care ma cucerea cu fiecare e-mail.
Incepusem sa muncesc ca un robotel care stie ce are de facut dar gandurile imi erau departe. Eram ca o Ileana Cosanzeana inchisa intr-un castel ce se gandeste la Fat-Frumos.
Desi nu-mi exteriorizam sentimentele si trairile probabil se putea citi pe fata mea bucuria si speranta.
Am sa redau aici cateva fragmente din scrisorile noastre. Vor fi in engleza si sper ca nu ve-ti avea nevoie de traducere. Daca da sa cereti traducerea si nu ma supar daca altcineva va dori sa o faca. Deasemenea nu am sa dau pasajele unde am scris despre noi. Am sa spun doar ca amandoi am fost foarte sinceri unu cu altul si am pus negru pe alb foarte multe detalii despre noi.
Am urmat sfatul bunicului lui care spunea asa:
My grandfather once gave me some VERY GOOD ADVICE: DO NOT
MARRY SOMEONE FOR THE THINGS THAT YOU LIKE ABOUT THEM. THE MARRIAGE
WILL BE TERRIBLE AND NOT LAST. MARRY SOMEONE FOR THE THINGS THAT YOU
DON'T LIKE ABOUT THEM. FIND OUT WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT THEM, AND IF
YOU CAN TOLERATE AND FORGIVE THESE FAULTS, YOU WILL HAVE A LONG AND
HAPPY MARRIAGE.
My Dearest and Most Beautiful Lia!!
How glad I am to receive each and every email that you send
to me!! I believe that you have a great deal of strength
and beauty inside, to go along with your considerable
beauty outside!
I feel very close to you now. I am VERY impatient to come
and see you. However, I only just sent off for my passport
and they told me that it could take up to SIX WEEKS for it
to be approved and come back to me! The passport bureau is
being very careful right now because of the terrorist
attack in New York and Washington D.C. on 09/11/2001. Also
when I make my reservation, it would be very prudent and a
lot less costly for me to make the reservation at least 21
days in advance of travelling. It will cost me about $1000
- $1200 for the ticket IF I purchase 21 days in advance.
Otherwise, the ticket will cost double or even triple that
cost. I hope you understand my reluctance to spend that
extra money. But it is so hard to wait!! I am eager to
see you! Is your spoken English as good as your written
English? You really write English VERY WELL. I am VERY
VERY IMPRESSED with your command of my native tongue.
I think this was all part of God's rich plan though. If
all the things in my life...and all the things in your
life didn't happen the way they have happened...and at the
time they happened...we wouldn't have ever known each
other. You wouldn't have been looking for me on the
internet and I wouldn't have been looking for you either
Has it only been 7 emails? It seems like I know you so much
better than that!!! I feel very close and loving towards
you my sweet and beautiful Cornelia!! We aren't going to
worry about that 15 email stipulation that I made at the
beginning of our correspondence. I would get on a jet
and come see you tonight if I could!!
Please write me a long letter as soon as you can. I will
probably check my email 100 times between now and when you
write me again!!
Hello My Dearest and Most Beautiful Darling,
Is that Greeting too syrupy sweet? I look at it and I think
that it is, but I decided "what the heck!!!" Also, it is from the
heart, no matter how syrupy it sounds. The high point of my day is
receiving your letter. Thank You for writing so often and such nice
long letters!!
I believe that the man sets the tone for the married couple. I also
believe that the man is 90% responsible for the success of failure of a
man/woman relationship. For a relationship to be successful requires
EFFORT and COMMUNICATION!! And the man is responsible for expending
some effort, motivating his woman to WANT to expend effort; he must
listen to her, and hear what she is saying even when she isn't saying
anything at all. If she isn't saying anything, that is really bad and
he MUST reach out and discover what needs and desires of hers he has
neglected. Any and all bad things in life can be overcome by the
couple if they are willing to work together, suffer together, share the
good times TOGETHER!!! I want a Life-Partner!!
I am fast falling in love with you my darling Lia. I think I will
be hopelessly enmeshed in the coils of your love after we spend our
vacation together in May. I have such high hopes that we will hit it
off perfectly when we finally meet!!
Scrisoarea mea cu greselile de rigoare
Hello my love ..
Maybe you will be surprize about this mail ... but I was thinking to you and I am feeling that I want to write to you ... is like when I am feel much close to you if I write a mail for you...
I miss you .. and I must be patient and wait for 10.00 AM when the internet is not so expenceve to see if I get a mail from you ... so here I am .. missing you ... missing your words ... hope you are well .. and you miss me as much as I miss you .. or maybe more ...
I reread your mails and i found questions which I did not answer ... Maybe you don`t remember .. but if you will read your mail you will see.
I don`t know what to do .. just to answer to the questions ar to let my minde free and write what i am thinking and feeling ...
I feeling that i can trust you and I can tell you everything whit out to be afraide that in one day you will take advantage of that .( you know that many people do that ????)
I am in my lunch break , I have an sandwich whit cheess and tomato and a tea ...My office is very close of my apartment so I can came home to have lunch and sometimes I take the papers and I work at home .. but now is to cold and i will prefer to go back to the ofice ...
Can I say ;" I miss you ..and I am thinking to you " againe and againe and againe ... Can I tell you that I ask my self if are you the one I am looking for ??? Can I tell you that I want to be you and in the same time I am afraide ( I have the intention to delete " I am afraide" but I will not) I promise to be honest I will be ...
Last night going to bed I was thinking to you till a sleep ... have you do the same??? ....You are so far ... thinking that I will have poblem taking visa but I will be glad if in this time you will stay whit me here ... OHHHH I am thinking about the time we will spent togheter .. Do you know that I am very lezily in the morning .. that i like to sleep late (8.00 -9.00) of course in my free days ... and I am thinking that you will must to weke up to have breakfast and from bed i will smell the tost bread and after you will came againe in the bad and you will find me very soft, sweet and worm ... mmmm ... dreaming ... clouse your eyes ...
Oh! ... I start to have hopes .. and dreams ....
I must go .... have a nice day .... love ... Lia
Hello My Beautiful and Sweet Girl!!
Thank you very much for the spontaneous letter!! I am so happy that
you sent it without waiting to get my reply letter first. I would have
been put into a very bad mood if I didn't have a letter from you when I
came home from swimming tonight! Your letters are such a joy for me,
that I have become very spoiled these last 4 days that I have gotten an
email from you every day!! You MUST write me at least once a day or I
shall miss you too much and be in an ill humour!!
Do you know that I could write you three or four long emails a day, but
I didn't want you to know how much I think about you. I don't think
about you very often... ONLY about 1000 times a day!! I have killed my
personal ads so that no more women will write to me. I have the
dilemma of telling the other women I am writing with some regularity
that I am no longer interested in them. How do you think I should do
this? May I tell you that I am SURE that I am going to love you as
soon as I see you in the airport and we exchange our first tender
embrace, and our first gentle kiss?
As for me missing you as much as you miss me? I don't see how that is
possible!! I want to be with you so very much! I am eager to get to
know you in person, because if you have all the fine qualities that
your emails suggest that you have, I will FINALLY have found my
soul-mate!! I will be complete for the first time in my life, my
dearest, sweetest darling girl!
You CAN trust me dear Lia. I will prove that to you a little bit
when I come to see you for a month (I asked you how long you would
prefer that I stay in the previous email). If we like and love each
other as much as I hope, I will continue to be worthy of your trust and
love more and more with each passing year!!
I miss you more and more, my darling. I can hardly wait to be with
you. I hope your next email gives me a time to call you...I am eager to
hear your voice...I am sure it will sound like angels singing to me,
sweetheart!!!!
With all my love and affection...
Este extraordinar cat de mult ne poate imbunatati viata tehnologia care exista in ziua de astazi. Astept cu nerabdare sa se invetenze si teleportarea ca sa putem calatori in fractiuni de secunda unde ne doreste sufletul.
Desi totul suna atat de frumos si speram numai la bine oricand corespondenta putea sa inceteze fara nici o explicatie.
Ce poti face cand cineva care este doar o adresa de email dispare? Acesta era unul din motivele pentru care cu mare emotie deschdeam computerul, ma conectam la internet (uneori dura si cate jumatate de ora sa ma conectez) si accesam adresa de email. Fiecare scrisoare imi dovedea ca el inca exista , ca inca se gandeste la mine...ca e posibil...
mamica fericita a unui baietel!