Bebelusi de mai-iunie 2005 (33)
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babygirl spune:
l-am primit azi pe mail si m-a lasat cu lacrimi pe obraji si inima cat un bob
To All You Moms
We are sitting at lunch one day when my daughter
casually mentions that she and her husband are
thinking of "starting a family."
"We're taking a survey," she says half-joking. "Do
you think I should have a baby?"
It will change your life," I say, carefully
keeping my tone neutral.
I know," she says, "no more sleeping in on
weekends, no more spontaneous vacations."
But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my
daughter, trying to decide what to tell her. I want
her to know what she will never learn in childbirth
classes.
I want to tell her that the physical wounds of
child bearing will heal, but becoming a mother will
leave her with an emotional wound so raw that she will
forever be vulnerable.
I consider warning her that she will never again
read a newspaper without asking, "What if that had
been MY child?"
That every plane crash, every house fire will haunt
her. That when she sees pictures of starving children,
she will wonder if anything could be worse than
watching your child die.
I look at her carefully manicured nails and stylish
suit and think that no matter how sophisticated she
is, becoming a mother will reduce her to the primitive
level of a bear protecting her cub. That an urgent
call of "Mom!" will cause her to drop a soufflé or her
best crystal without a moments hesitation.
I feel that I should warn her that no matter how
many years she has invested in her career, she will
be professionally derailed by motherhood. She might
arrange for childcare, but one day she will be going
into an important business meeting and she will think
of her baby's sweet smell. She will h ave to use every
ounce of discipline to keep from running home, just to
make sure her baby is all right.
I want my daughter to know that every day decisions
will no longer be routine. That a five year old boy's
desire to go to the men's room rather than the women's
at McDonald's will become a major dilemma. That right
there, in the midst of clattering trays and screaming
children, issues of independence and gender identity
will be weighed against the prospect that a child
molester may be lurking in that restroom.
However decisive she may be at the office, she will
second-guess herself constantly as a mother.
Looking at my attractive daughter, I want to assure
her that eventually she will shed the pounds of
pregnancy, but she will never feel the same about
herself.
That her life, now so important, will be of less
value to her once she has a child. That she would give
herself up in a moment to save her offspring, but will
also begin to hope for more years, not to accomplish
her own dreams, but to watch her child accomplish
theirs.
I want her to know that a Cesarean scar or shiny
stretch marks will become badges of honor. My
daughter's relationship with her husband will
change,but not in the way she thinks.
I wish she could understand how much more you can
love a man who is careful to powder the baby or who
never hesitates to play with his child. I think she
should know that she will fall in love with him again
for reasons she would now find very unromantic.
I wish my daughter could sense the bond she will
feel with women throughout history who have tried to
stop war,prejudice and drunk driving.
I want to describe to my daughter the exhilaration
of seeing your child learn to ride a bike. I want to
capture for her the belly laugh of a baby who is
touching the soft fur of a dog or cat for the first
time. I want her to taste the joy that is so real it
actually hurts.
My daughter's quizzical look makes me realize that
tears have formed in my eyes. "You'll never regret
it," I finally say. Then I reached across the table,
squeezed my daughter's hand and offered a silent
prayer for her, and for me, and for all the mere
mortal women who stumble their way into this most
wonderful of callings.
Please share this with a Mom that you know or all
of your girlfriends who may someday be Moms. May you
always have in your arms the one who is in your heart.
Thank you,
Dani Lynn Trotta
EmAdina
gabitzam spune:
Adina, da stiu ca m-ai facut fleasca la prima ora a diminetii, am plins de m-am rupt!
Gabitza si bebe Andrei-Stefan 
(25.05.05)
Poze mai noi cu Andrei Pozele cele mai noi
corni spune:
Loreen,nr.de telefon de la cabinetul dr. Munteanu: 511651
Nici eu nu-i dau zeama de la supa, uneori mai subtiez crema cand ii pun si ficat si ou pentru ca devine prea cleioasa si nu poate sa inghita dar alteori folosesc lapte pentru subtiere.Oricum zeama o refuza.
Sarea,mie doctorita mi-a precizat din nou la controlul de 6 luni sa nu-i pun sare in mancare.
Sterilizat, eu sterilizez in continuare toate biberoanele din care bea lapte, cele de fructe doar le spal. Am multe biberoane si dimineata asta este prima grija pun o oala mare pe foc cu toate biberoanele .
corni si bebe (11 May 2005)
elly_b spune:
mda ... gabitza subscriu. m-a facut varza. impresionant.
cred ca fiecare dintre noi ducem in suflet "povara", chiar daca nu ne trece prin cap sa asternem pe hartie.
mai bine de atat nu stiu cum ar putea fi descris sentimentul de a fi mama
pot spune ca eu personal mi-am inteles mama si m-am apropiat de ea abia in momentul in care la randul meu am devenit mama. cand i-am spus ca sunt insarcinata nu a avut o reactie negativa, dar nici nu s-a bucurat prea tare, a fost o reactie "de durere". bucuriile au venit pe urma ...
fetelor descretiti-va fruntile si lasati emotia deoparte (eu vorbesc care inca sughit de plans). bucuria si mandria de a fi mama nu pot fi inlocuite de nimic pe lumea asta. chiar daca noi, ca femei, suntem acum pe locul doi sau sunt momente in care nici nu existam, toate astea sunt inlocuite de zambetul si ochii puilor nostrii, carora sa le dea dumnezeu toata sanatatea si norocul din lume. citez "You'll never regret it"
sa aveti o zi frumoasa si sa va bucurati de puii vostrii
mami de 
annelies(30.06.2005)
poze botez
Margott spune:
Fetelor din Bucuresti voi scoateti azi copiii afara?
Ca ma uit pe geam si vad lume zgribulita si mai nou fulguieste.
Margott
http://community.webshots.com/user/arcultro
monu spune:
La multi ani sarbatoritilor de astazi!!!! sa crestei mari si voinici
noi am inceput ziua cu urlete. nu mai are astampar. se intoarce pe toate partile si colac peste pupaza mi-a sarit si din brate. noroc ca eram deasupra mesei de schimbat. in orice caz a reusit sa se izbeasca cu capul de comoda pe care e salteau de schimbat si a plans vreo 10 minute. drept urmare am dat jos caruselul de la marginea patutului, care a fost si cauza pt care mi-a sarit din brate. sa vedem ce ne mai rezerva ziua de azi.
pupici
si Alexia Ioana
poze Alexia Ioana
gusta spune:
Neata si de la noi.
Eu mai sterilizes numai biberoanele restul nimic.Spal bine si gata.
Loreen subscriu la ce ai zis si tu cel mai bun lucru pe anul asta este nasterea lui Mara restul e dezastru.
Mami meu si-a anuntat vizita asa ca o periaoda nu am sa mai fiu pe aici dar va mai dam de veste despre noi.
Adina frumoase cuvinte si adevarate.
va pup dulce
Marilena mamic de Marut mic
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/adriaanse2000/my_photos
elly_b spune:
fetelor s-a ars gaga mic la funduletz de nu-ti vine sa crezi. a facut un eritem de toata frumusetea. plangea de dimineata mititica de usturime cand o spalam de funduletz de ti se rupea sufletul.
ea nu a avut niciodata astfel de probleme. s-a mai inrosit o data chiar inainte de botez dar i-a trecut si era ca noua in 2 zile.
de data asta mie mi se pare mult mai rau.
eu pana pe la 4 luni o dadeam la fiecare schimbare de pampers cu bepanthen, acum nu o mai dau decat seara inainte de culcare ... si uite rezultatul 
asa ca ... cald in camera, bebe la fundul gol, apa cu bicarbonat si ulei de masline incins si racit.
voi mai stiti si alte remedii, ca tare mi-e mila de ea
mami de annelies(30.06.2005)
poze botez
gabitzam spune:
De ieri l-am pus pe Andrei pe jos ca nu mai tinea cu canapeaua. L-am prins luni tocmai la timp cind facea un salt cu capul in jos, l-am prins chiar la margine.
A invatat sa se deplaseze, chiar daca nu e chiar de-a busile pe bune. Face un fel de miscare precum o omidutza. Patru labute, balans inainte, jos pe burta, iar patru labute, salt inainte, si tot asa.
Ieri l-am pozat intr-o excursie din asta de-a lui. Vedeti aici
Toata ziua am facut ture dupa el sa-l intorc atunci cind ajungea la margine si o lua pe covor.
Am primit si eu cadou caseta lui Cindy, dar cred ca nu o sa mai am nevoie de ea la cite genoflexiuni fac dupa Andrei 
Gabitza si bebe Andrei-Stefan (25.05.05)
Poze mai noi cu Andrei Pozele cele mai noi
beatriced spune:
Salutici!
Astazi nu avem nici un sarbatorit! Hm!
Loreen, mai nu am facut tort ca ala contine calorii si atunci e in zadar sala, in schimb am facut un compot super tare cu de toate fructele... Si cu zeama... Si sper eu sa aibe mai putine calcorii... Ca sunt fructe, doar! Hm!
Gabitza, eu nu pot vedea pozele!
Astazi vom merge labazinul de inot... Yupii! abia asteptam... daca reusesc cumva sa fac poze, le pun sa le vedeti si voi!
Ma duc ca acusica fac niste chiftelute din dovlecei, dulci... Si se ard!